We all are free to ask questions.
.At the end of this section you should be able to:
·
.Know who you are and your duties as a fecaite
·
..Enhance the brotherly love amongst each other
· Acknowledge
each other as one family
Before I explain further, I would like to refresh our memories of
what a family really is. From what we all knew from our primary days, it was
said that family is the smallest unit in the society that consist of the
father, mother, and children, that was the simplest explanation, which meant
that it functions like a cell in the human body, and without a cell according
to biologist, there is no tissue or organ not to talk of system. but as we
got higher in the level of education, we were now taught
that family is not only a unit that consist of the father and mother and
children, family is that group that teaches morals, norms and values of the
society in other to produce responsible youth and citizen.
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at a certain point family was now defined as In
the context of human society, a family (from Latin: familia) is a group of people affiliated
either by consanguinity (by recognized
birth), affinity (by marriage or any other
relationship like siblings families etc..), or co-residence (as implied by the
etymology of the English word "family"[1])
or some combination of these. Members of the immediate family include
spouses, parents, brothers, sisters, sons, and/or daughters. Members of the
extended family may include grandparents, aunts, uncles, cousins, nephews,
nieces, and/or siblings-in-law. Sometimes these
are also considered members of the immediate family, depending on an
individual's specific relationship with them.
In most societies, the family is the principal
institution for the socialization of children.
As the basic unit for raising children, anthropologists generally
classify most family organizations as matrifocal (a mother and
her children); conjugal (a husband, his wife, and children, also called
the nuclear family); avuncular (for example,
a grandparent, a brother, his sister, and her children); or extended (parents and
children co-reside with other members of one parent's family). Sexual relations
among the members are regulated by rules concerning incest such as
the incest taboo.This
means that the family teaches and grooms, the family takes intensive care of
those that are under their family hood.
IMPORTANCE OF FAMILY
Not everyone out there
can imagine life without a family. Barring a few unfortunate individuals, for
most of us our family is an integral part of our lives. No law in this world
can defy this fact. The moment you enter this merciless world, where each man
is for himself, there are some near and dear ones out there who leave no stone
unturned to ensure your happiness.
Let’s face it; we are
nothing more than a perishable object, without someone taking care of us on our
arrival in this world. Despite all the odds, your family will take care of your
wellbeing, and try their best to provide you the greatest comforts in the
world. They will also protect your dignity and make sure that your boat sails
successfully to the shore, irrespective of the odds in life.
It doesn’t require a
sharp memory to recall those days, when your parents must have spent sleepless
nights to ensure that you feel homely, get well or ease your burden. No one out
there, except your family must have forgiven the endless number of blunders you
must have committed in your life. Apart from teaching you forgive and forget
lessons, they must have always been there for you, when you needed them the
most.
The values and coaching
passed on to us from our family members will stay there guiding us for the rest
of our lives, thereby ensuring our growth and survival in the society. It won’t
be an understatement to claim that our family is the first institute where we
were taught how to cope up with the physical world. In fact, psychologists
state that a child learns most of the things in life from his family. After
all, we all inherit some qualities from our parents.
Right from changing the
diapers when we could barely stand on our feet, to supporting us with a
responsible shoulder for tear shedding, our family members stand by us like a
rock solid force compelling us to face the world courageously, even during
times of adversity. Goes without saying, the family is the most important force
responsible for shaping our personality.
Even when we migrate from
one place to another, we carry our family values with us. In fact, our family
is responsible for our identity. Remember, the world knows you by your actions
and not by your intentions. Whatever we have learned from our family over the
years serves as a basic premise for our actions in life. As such, individuals
with extended family enjoy more benefits over a person who decides to lead a
solo life. A person with a family receives an emotional edge, which often
results into his success in life.
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During hard times,
everyone in the family including you benefit due to the extended relationship,
especially during events such as death, accident and so on. Also, the joy
associated with success or any other happy moment magnifies when our family is
around. Everyone out there is able to reap the benefits of one person’s
success, whether it’s your birthday, a new business venture or any other
milestone in life.
While technology has
certainly helped families stay in close contact with each other, can it replace
the feeling that one receives after hugging his/her child or can it serve as an
ideal barter for a pat on the back? Whatever the case may be, the significance
of family is incalculable!
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Here in FECA World Bank we are not just an association, we are a
family, though a unit but built upon a rock, with highly esteem morals and
values, striving towards procreating benevolent and responsible youth to the
society and country at large.
FECA World Bank is an association where individuals especially
destined youths comes together and share the word of reality and truth. We are
a family and as a family we teach, we inspire, we give update, we encourage and
also we accept every personality and ideology, but yet some heart are too
hardened in such a way that they do not acknowledge the word that comes out
from the representative of God’s kingdom here on earth, which is why we have
been given a mandate to redeem the desolation of our time and generation. So as
a fecaite and as a member of the family it is our duties to assure our selves
redemption, and then bring more people to the family so as to promote god’s kingdom
here on earth.it is also our duty to intercede for one another and contribute
to the affairs of the family, by joining and being active in at least one
department in the chapter. FECA World Bank is not just an association of young
boys and girls, but a family of peace, unity and most especially love.
Ladies and gentlemen, welcome ones again to the FECA FAMILY.
FECA world bank has a blog .serving as a public medium for
publicizing the gospel, at FECAWORLDBANK.BLOGSPOT.COM. you can always go online
and read intensive on the interesting topics posted. To promote the family
initiatives, we may not have all the time to get close and ask you of your
challenges, and affairs and even your contribution, dues to that course, a
suggestion box has been provided, where you can make contributions, air your
views and more especially write down your prayer point, as we pray for success,
so as to promote and bring more testimonies to the family.
FECA WORLD BANK, LEADERS AND ROLEMODELS, IT’S TIME FOR
REVIVAL
WELCOME TO THE FAMILY…
FECA ANTHEM
Here and now, in our timeWe remember our God
Who made us and loved us
And gave us Christ His son
So we come in the love
Of the one who made us free
To stand in one accord
To redeem the desolation
Of our land and generation
As we walk with the lord
We shall rise and shine as the light
We shall lift the weary hands up
That hangs down
We shall raise the feeble knees that stoop to fall
As we call upon the lord
What he tells us we will do
And we shall keep the vision burning
As we walk with the lord
In the days of our youth
We remember our God
Who gave us this nation
And the blessing we receive
So we give Him our lives
And the worship he deserves
We move in one accord
In his holiness and power
To redeem our generation
Till he comes again
You all are invited to FECA world bank chapter, located at
victory church, umuocham road by ukwu apu aba abia state , every sunday by two
pm. Remain fruitful !!!
Nice post. Keep them coming sir
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